WHY IT IS DANGEROUS FOR IGALA MAN TO GO TO A WOMAN HIS FRIEND OR RELATIVE EVER HAD AN AFFAIR WITH FOR ANOTHER AFFAIR
WHY IT IS DANGEROUS FOR IGALA MAN TO GO TO A WOMAN HIS FRIEND OR RELATIVE EVER HAD AN AFFAIR WITH FOR ANOTHER AFFAIR
There is a proverb in Igala that there is what they eyes will see and eat, and there is what the eyes will see and not eat. In addition, it is also noted in Igala proverb that if you say a beautiful woman will not pass by you without approaching her for something, it is during your burial that she will come and dance. Scary, isn’t it? These were the things we grew to meet, and this made us to ask the elders for explanation sometimes. And, the explanation? More scary than the proverb. But, the proverb is not to make anyone to be afraid but to be careful with the way of life.
Back to the topic. If your brother or relative or friend has had an intimate affair with a lady, you can never go near that person to have such intimate affair with the lady again. Yes, the woman maybe the most beautiful, caring, gentle and richest woman in the world, and likes you very much, you can’t have a again even if it is for free. Why? It is a very fàst lane to deàth.
Those who experimented didn’t leave to conclude the story as they could not explain it before the time was up. Listen, Igala sons anywhere, this has a resistance to any form of religion or prayer because our ancestors made it like a cursé in order to make the society clean right from those days, and they threw a way the key. How does it kíll? When two brothers or friends had played with the same woman intimately, even if they are only two in town and staying together, when one is sick, the other cannot get him a medicine. No matter how the sickness is doing the other brother, the second can’t take him to hospital or give him drûgs to take. If he does, that sick brother will díe. Stop shouting! Call one elder in your village and ask. Don’t give him medicine o, run away and call another person to help your brother. You can now see. What a shame! A small sweet period then has resulted to a great pain and shame for you.
Terrible, if you ask me. But that is not all. Should that your brother or friend díes, and you see his deàd body, oh, brother, you are gone. I mean, you won’t live to see three days. Let me hold the rest. But why this? It is to prevent fights over a woman by brothers, friends and even relatives. It is to prevent immorality in the society.
It is to prevent the dragging of the one who is the real father of the child out of the 3 brothers, etc. And if you have made this mistake with your friend or brother because of one girl, don’t be afraid. Just take caution especially during sickness and God forbid, déath even at old age. Wait. Did I even asked you if you have ever heard that some guys ran from home when they heard that their friend diéd? Oh! They are running away not to see when they are carrying his body to burial place o because they have colobi the same girl together and they all know. Once you see his body or possession of the people leading him to burial place, you need to start planning your own journey. E still de kíll. Don’t go take that former girlfriend of your friend or brother because he has gone to town or another city. Don’t say that Amb Ayegba didn’t tell you. It is a disaster waiting to happen.
Peace, always.
God bless history! It teaches and directs us to the right direction. Again, peace!!!